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August 13 Texan MuslimsAn interesting video; I think it's weird that they ask "Can you be a Texan and a Muslim" but I honestly think many Americans can't associate the word Islam with the word Texan.
And this is their website: Turn to Islam
Fabulous.
PS. I have to admit it annoys me when women walk down the rows in the mosque straightening the lines when they are fine. If people aren't facing the qiblah properly or are really not lined up right, ok, but if not then it's just annoying. Especially when the 'straightener lady' starts praying, then leaves her prayer to go straighten somebody else, then comes back and reenters the prayer. I don't know why but it kind of irritates me.
Also, I was pretty confused where they were talking about David getting married the traditional way by using a matchmaker. I was like "huh"? I hope they didn't mean that the traditional Islamic way of getting married is by using a matchmaker (understood by most Americans to mean something negative).
July 16 Islam, Culture, and National Liberation~ Bismillah ~
Before I begin, I want to make the point that my main claim in the below essay is nothing novel. Scholars have written about this issue for years, and all I am doing is simply processing it with my own limited knowledge. I am putting it on this blog in hopes of increasing awareness of the issue among my humble readership, but mostly for my own benefit, to 'put my thoughts down on paper,' so as to better process these thoughts. Wallahul musta3aan. Part I. ------------- Islam, Culture, and National Liberation Colonialism (and imperialism - I use the two terms interchangeably in this essay) has always been a subject of particular fascination to me because of how significantly it shaped the world. Colonialism affected and often drastically changed the way things like culture, language, politics, and labor dynamics operated in the colonized countries. Most, if not all Muslim countries, have been affected by colonialism (imperialism); in all cases mostly negatively, from the indigenous peoples' perspective.
Although colonialism has officially ended, I continue to be intrigued by it and its consequences. I continue to read literature on the subject, written by both European and colonized authors, my favorites being people like Franz Fanon, Jamaica Kincaid, and Amilcar Cabral. Understanding colonialism and its mechanisms helps me to understand the current situation of the world we live in; more specifically, it helps explain why the Arab (and Muslim) world looks the way it does today. I hope this will help take me to the next step of understanding how to affect positive change in these societies bi ithn illah.
Another, perhaps more important reason why I continue to research colonialism is because there is a situation of physical, present-day colonialism that still exists and that concerns me greatly. I am referring to the Israeli occupation of Palestine, very explicit, in-your-face colonialism. It is not possible here to delve into a comparative analysis of past colonial situations and the current Palestine/Israel situation to prove that Israel is indeed a colonizing power just like France, Britain, and many others once were (and arguably still are, but that's another issue), using very similar colonizing tactics just like the old colonial powers once did. For the purposes of this post, let us assume that Israel is the colonizer, Palestine the colonized, and let us assume that this colonialism carries with it all the horrors and injustices of any colonial situation. It follows that this occupation must be removed, somehow, which is why I turn to studying past colonial experiences, focusing on the issue of how to bring about national liberation for the colonized people. Different scholars present a plethora of theories on different means of bringing about national liberation for colonized peoples. Franz Fanon, for example, is a strong advocate of countering the horrible violence of the colonizers with violence from the colonized. For Fanon, violence will give the colonizers sufficient power to overthrow the colonizing forces and liberating 'the indigenous people.' Although unfortunately convincing, I am drawn even more to Amilcar Cabral's argument that culture is the only thing strong enough to unite and inspire the colonized people enough to bring about their liberation. In fact, the title of this essay is meant to resemble his essay "National Liberation and Culture" because, although his article speaks specifically to colonization of African peoples, I think his theoretical framework can be applicable in many other situations, including that of Palestine. According to Cabral, "[t]he value of culture as an element of resistance to foreign domination lies in the fact that cultue is the vigorous manifestation on the ideological or idealist plane of the physical and historical reality of the society that is dominated or to be dominated" and that a "liberation movement must ... base its action on popular culture." For Cabral, the culture of the colonized natives must be deconstructed and rebuilt, completely overhauled, so to speak, in an effort to remove the negative aspects of that culture and reinforce the positive aspects of it: the national liberation movement "must be able to preserve the positive cultural values" of the people, and "discern in the entire set of cultural values of the people the essential and the secondary, the positive and the negative, the progressive and the reactionary, the strengths and the weaknesses." This is done to concentrate on how best the culture can become the basis of the national liberation struggle. The central question here then is how does one go about deciding what are the "essential" or "secondary", the "positive" or "negative" aspects, the "strengths" or "weaknesses" of a culture? Examining the effects of each aspect of the culture, and determining whether or not these effects are positive or negative, and whether they should be 'removed' or 'kept' is left up to individual interpretation. Which individuals should do this interpreting then, since different people will look at things differently? Furthermore, there is the problem of pin-pointing what exactly the 'culture' of the colonized people really is, and then implementing the changes that individual interpretations determine must be made. Again, culture will mean different things to different parts of the same society, leaving you with an incredibly fluid and unreliable definition of the culture to be examined. These important questions mean that although Cabral's theory on culture and its ability to bring about national liberation is incredibly intriguing and sounds logical, it lacks practicality, as discussed above. The beautiful thing is that there is in fact a means of taking Cabral's theory, adjusting it slightly, and making it work. ---- - to be continued insha'Allah - April 02 The BaseSimple as that. And by the way, here's a link to the Allah Made me Funny comedy tour. They can be funny. They can also be annoying. But they can be funny. March 12 Je nai pas shake hands with menNote: Lots of people have been using French titles for their blog posts recently. I decided to be a completely conforming automaton and go with the flow. Problem: I don't know French. Amz: Hope you like my innovation with the Francais langveege (Turkish accent).
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I feel kind of bad for non-Muslim males when I tell them "I'm sorry, I don't shake hands with men."
They usually turn bright red and don't seem to know what to do with their hands. They often end up scratching their heads. Typical male reaction. (sorry).
The worst thing is when fellow Muslimahs sitting right by me shake the dudes' hands without so much as a second's hesitation. Talk about sending inconsistent messages.
"Ooh! I'm so sorry, I apologize, *stammer stammer*" is the most common response I get from guys.
"Nothing to be sorry about, man" I reply.
The braver ones look at me quizically for a short while, then say something along the lines of "May I ask why?". They don't even know they're presenting me with perfect dawah oppurtunities.
Worst of all is the " But a Muslim lady shook my hand yesterday! In fact, there she is right there!"
If you are a non-Muslim and you don't like my explanation about why I do not shake hands with you, think about it along the lines of personal hygiene. Think about how much cleaner you would be if you had to shake 50% less hands. Not to say that everyone is dirty. Just most everyone. (joke people, joke).
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Sad yet funny instance a couple of days ago: I was standing in line at Starbucks for a Frappuchino (sp?); there was a tall man in front of me, and Salma was just in front of him.
"Salma, anee wa7ad biddik itjarbeeh hal marrah? (Salma, which one do you want to try this time?)" I asked Salma. She shrugged.
The man looks at me funny. "Excuse me, what language were you speaking? he asks.
"Arabic", I reply with a polite smile.
" Do you mind me asking where you are from?" he asks.
"I am of Palestinian heritage on my dad's side; my mom is Minnesotan," I reply.
"I was going to say, you don't look Arab at all" he replies. Note here the immediate and very problematic assumption that Arabs have one particular 'look'. Even more importantly, note the immediate assumption that he knows what that 'look' is.
"Hmm" I respond. He looks at me even more closely.
"You're not blond under there are you?" he asks, finally. I silence an outburst of laughter I can feel about to explode from my mouth.
"I think if I wanted that information known I wouldn't be covering!" I say.
The conversation goes on, with me attempting to explain to him the purpose of hijab amidst the Starbucks' lady's interruptions ("We only have the light mix, sorry. That'll be $3.50"). My explanation isn't going well. A Starbuck's line isn't a great place to try and explain the vast topic of hijab. I keep it short.
"Well, thank you for indulging my curiosity" he says.
"You're welcome. Thanks for asking." Said with another polite smile.
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February 02 Just Ask
وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُواْ لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُواْ بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
سورة البقرة ، اية 186
When My servants ask you (Prophet Muhammad) concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on Me: Let them also, with a will, Listen to My call, and believe in Me: That they may walk in the right way.
Chapter 2 (The Cow), verse 186
So simple. So beautiful. So satisfying. Thank Allah for the blessing of Islam.
إن الدين عند الله الإسلام
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January 01 Jabr and Qadr in Islam (Free Will vs. Predetermination)Bismillah Irahman Iraheem
A while back I had been spending a lot of time thinking about the issues of free will and predetermination in Islam. I didn't understand how everything in life is predetermined but at the same time we have the ability to act out of our own free will. I specifically wanted to know why we should strive to do good in our lives and seek Allah's guidance in doing these good deeds, even though Allah already knows whether we're going to Heaven or Hell.
This article on Abez's blog, and some comments on it, were very helpful for shedding some light on this issue in a clear and precise way. I urge you to read it:
Begin from the beginning: Jabr & Qadr
"I sat down and started typing out the next long ole installment on Jabr and Qadr, and SubhanAllah, Uzer and Selina typed the answer out for me in a shorter, sweeter format. :) So Hemmie, in response to your question: but arent all our decisions based on our circumstances? starting from the begining, the families we are born in (the education they give us, the values they inculcate in us, which later go on to influence what i will or wont do?)
Actually, I listened to a lecture recently by Yusuf Estes, and he was saying that we are judged on our intentions. The first Hadith in Bukhari tells us that all of our deeds will be based on our intentions, and through that we will get reward or punishment.
Hemlock. The way I look at it is that a person will get the reward of whatever good he does or the sin of whatever evil he does according to the situation he's in and how conducive that situation is to certain acts. For example, if I live in a hardcore muslim country surrounded by people of super-iman it isn't particularly difficult for me to avoid zinah, for example. Thus I will have to go out of my way to attempt it and the sin will be proportional. On the other hand staying away from it is relatively easy and the reward for getting married (in the situation where everyone is doing it anyway) may not be as much as if I'm in a different hypothetical society where, for example, marriage is frowned upon and zinah is the "in thing". Avoiding zinah in that circumstance will be much more difficult and the reward for it proportional. But, if I do go ahead and do zinah, on the Day of Judgement I'd imagine that a zani from this society would not be equal to a zani from the former society Wallahu 'Alam.
November 14 Hijab-Loving it Even MoreConic asked me to elaborate on what I meant by saying that my love for hijab increased after I attended that party on Friday night. So here is my explanation for what I meant:
Because the party was an all-women's party, most of the women there took off their hijabs after the door was tightly shut, and they were all dressed up and had their hair done and so on. Mashallah, we were all beautiful women, but for those who wear hijab, when the protective layer of the hijab came off, the beauty was even more radiant, even more stunning, even more precious. Hijab serves to preserve this beauty; to ensure that it is kept as valuable as it is, to ensure that it is respected and appreciated, not tossed around for anyone to see and use (yes, use). My fellow hijabi sisters were indeed stunning, and when we all put our hijabs and abayas back on, we covered up the precious beauty, to later be uncovered only for special, particular people. That, my fellow bloggers, is an amazing feeling; the feeling that you have something so special, so radiant, so precious, that is preserved and covered, and exposed only for very special people. Hence my love and appreciation for hijab was reinforced by my attendence at Friday night's party and seeing all the beauty of my hijabi sisters around me.
Alhumdulilah for the blessing of Islam..alhumdulilah 3ala ni3mat al Islam...
October 23 Ramadan: all fun and playThe guy on the right is Satan; the guy on the left is a head of one of the Arabic TV stations.
Satan: Don't let us down this Ramadan...we want the Muslim world to shake (i.e dancing and stupidity) all day long, every day!
Head: Of course, may your life be long, we won't let you down, this year we have more than 100 soap operas, 500 music videos, comedy shows, cooking shows, game shows, and late night television shows lined up for programming...Don't worry about the ummah while you're gone, we're up to it!
*Note: not a literal translation..I just translated it so that it would sound right in English..so don't anyone come complaining to me that "ibshir ya taweel il 3mr" doesn't mean "of course", because I already know that...
![]() September 21 Uh-oh: fasting on Nuss Sha3ban is a bid3ah !Ooook so if you take a look at my last post you will notice that I recommended fasting on the 15th of Sha3ban (Nuss Sha3ban)..however, just recently I found out that fasting on that day is actually a bid3ah supported by several weak hadiths, and since every bid3ah is illegitimate in Islam, we should not participate in any fasting or celebration of that particular day.
كل محدثة بدعة، و كل بدعة ضلالة ، و كل ضلالة في النار
I got my information from a fatwa by the highly notable and credible Sheikh Ibn Baz; if you know anything about some of the most prominent scholars of Islam you will know Sheikh Ibn Baz. Here is what I found: both English and Arabic.
Question: What are the merits of the night of Shaban?
Answer:In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. There are no specific merits learned from authentic sources as to the occasion of the 15th of Sha'ban. The occasion, however, deserves reflection on the lessons learned from the event as well as a study of the Seerah of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Question: Can we observe fasting on the 15th of Shaban?
Answer: In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. The most frequently repeated hadith as to the specific acts of worship on the 15th of Sha`ban states that the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) advised us to fast on the day and pray at night. However, according to the scholars of hadith, this hadith is very weak. It is reported in Sunan Ibn Majah, but the chain of narrators contains Abu Bakr Ibn `Abdullah Ibn Abi Seerah who was accused by Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, Ibn Hibban and Al-Hakim, of forging hadith. Imam Al-Mundhri in Fath Al-Qadir stated the same thing, in addition to, Imam Al-Busary in Zawa'id Ibn Majah stated that the hadith is very weak. So, there is no authentic reports that we should specify certain acts of worship on the 15th of Shaban. As for Sheikh Ibn Baz's Fatwa:
الحمد لله الذي أكمل لنا الدين ، وأتم علينا النعمة ، والصلاة والسلام على نبيه ورسوله محمد نبي التوبة والرحمة .
August 16 Use of the Pronoun "We" in the QuranSalams to all...
I have noticed that a lot of non-Muslims are confused as to the use of the pronoun "We" in the Quran with reference to Allah (swt). Not only does Allah address Himself in first person (I and We), but also in second and third person (Thee or He)...anyways, the use of the pronoun "We" does not in any way imply plurality of Allah, but rather:
( Al-'Aqeedah al-Tadmuriyyah by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah, p. 75).
[al-Hijr 15:9 – interpretation of the meaning] as proof of divine plurality, we may refute this claim by quoting such clear and unambiguous aayaat as (interpretation of the meanings):
and
and other aayaat which can only be interpreted in one way. Thus confusion will be dispelled for the one who is seeking the truth. Every time Allaah uses the plural to refer to Himself, it is based on the respect and honour that He deserves, and on the great number of His names and attributes, and on the great number of His troops and angels.
I hope that clears up some confusion for anyone who is interested.
Additional Sources: http://www.islaam.net/display/display.php?id=569&category=2 http://aaiil.org/text/hq/art/naseer/weforallah.shtml http://www.islam101.com/tauheed/AllahWE.htm http://www.pakistanlink.com/religion/2000/03-10.html
July 29 Baby, it's all good!Ok, so this post was inspired by Alicia's post on hijab ...thx for the inspiration Ali. (http://spaces.msn.com/members/samragirl/) !!! I didn't write this poem, but I always enjoy reading it and sharing it with people who need a morale boost :) ...Enjoy :
Baby, it's all good! - A modern hijab poem Author unknown What do you see when you look at me Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used Not because I have been stared at or made fun of Real men are able to appreciate my mind We have the strength to do what we think is right So when people ask you how you feel about the hood
July 22 What is Islam?Islam ...is my inner peace..
Islam...is a sense of security...
Islam...assures me that there is always someone there for me...
Islam...is a guiding hand...
Islam...keeps away confusion...
Islam....takes me by the hand and shows me the way..
Islam...is my point of reference...
Islam...is my base...
Islam....is my slogan....
Islam...is within me...
Islam....comforts me...protects me..
Islam....teaches me to stand tall and proud and strong...
Islam....is a constant reminder...of greater things...
Islam...is a religion...
but more importantly, Islam...is my way of life...
What is Islam to you ? July 17 Hijab: A Must or a ChoiceThis article is a trackback from http://sabbah.bizFor anyone curious about hijab, and what it means, this is a good article to read...
Hijab… a Must, OR a Choice?Cat.: Regional, Culture, Human Rights, Islam, Religion26. June 2005
Hijab has been the subject of much controversy and debate, especially since the French government decided to ban hijab and other religious “symbols” from public schools. Everyone wants to know what’s hijab all about? Is hijab a matter of choice or not? Do Muslim women get forced to wear the hijab? How do the non-Muslims view the Muslim women? Why does the West see The Veil as symbol of oppression of women, making them invisible, anonymous and voiceless? Is the Headscarf symbol of Islam only, or does it have any roots in Judaism and Christianity? What’s the origin of The Veil? A lot of question, I know. Most if not all were answered over many debates and on many occasions, however, since many of the visitors here are from western background, it is important for me to try to answer some of these questions again, and I’m sure many others will have a different opinions. But before we talk about hijab, it has to be made clear first that Muslim women in the Muslim world today do not receive the noble treatment described by Islam! (This is a shocking statement, someone might say. I mean you don’t expect a person to defend some Islamic symbol, yet criticize his Muslim society. But one has to be fair!). Anyway, the vast differences among Muslim societies make most generalizations too simplistic. There is a wide spectrum of attitudes towards women in the Muslim world today. These attitudes differ from one society to another and within each individual society. Nevertheless, certain general trends are discernible. Almost all Muslim societies have, to one degree or another, deviated from the ideals of Islam with respect to the status of women. These deviations have, for the most part, been in one of two opposite directions. The first direction is more conservative, restrictive, and traditions-oriented, while the second is more liberal and Western-oriented. The societies that have digressed in the first direction treat women according to the customs and traditions inherited from their forebears. These traditions usually deprive women of many rights granted to them by Islam. Besides, women are treated according to standards far different from those applied to men. This discrimination pervades the life of any female: she is received with less joy at birth than a boy; she is less likely to go to school; she might be deprived any share of her family’s inheritance; she is under continuous surveillance in order not to behave immodestly while her brother’s immodest acts are tolerated; she might even be killed for committing what her male family members usually boast of doing; she has very little say in family affairs or community interests; she might not have full control over her property and her marriage gifts; and finally as a mother she herself would prefer to produce boys so that she can attain a higher status in her community. Back to Hijab. Let us shed some light on what is considered in the west as the greatest symbol of women’s oppression and servitude, Hijab, the veil or the head cover. Hijab is derived from the Arabic word hajaba, which means to conceal or to prevent from being seen. The garb must be loose and opaque and must be worn, whenever the women either leaves the house, or whenever male visitors not belonging to the family are received. Only the hands and face may, according to the prophet Mohammed, be visible, but this point is rather controversial. Some also choose to cover these parts of the body, but more often than not this is the result of the personal choice of the individual woman. Ok then. But, is it true that there is no such thing as the veil in the Judaeo-Christian tradition? Let’s set the record straight. According to Rabbi Dr. Menachem M. Brayer (Professor of Biblical Literature at Yeshiva University) in his book ‘The Jewish woman in Rabbinic literature’, it was the custom of Jewish women to go out in public with a head covering which, sometimes, even covered the whole face leaving one eye free. He quotes some famous ancient Rabbis saying,”It is not like the daughters of Israel to walk out with heads uncovered” and “Cursed be the man who lets the hair of his wife be seen….a woman who exposes her hair for self-adornment brings poverty.” Rabbinic law forbids the recitation of blessings or prayers in the presence of a bareheaded married woman since uncovering the woman’s hair is considered “nudity”. Dr. Brayer also mentions that “During the Tannaitic period the Jewish woman’s failure to cover her head was considered an affront to her modesty. When her head was uncovered she might be fined four hundred zuzim for this offense.” Dr. Brayer also explains that veil of the Jewish woman was not always considered a sign of modesty. Sometimes, the veil symbolized a state of distinction and luxury rather than modesty. The veil personified the dignity and superiority of noble women. It also represented a woman’s inaccessibility as a sanctified possession of her husband. It is clear in the Old Testament that uncovering a woman’s head was a great disgrace and that’s why the priest had to uncover the suspected adulteress in her trial by ordeal (Numbers 5:16-18). The veil signified a woman’s self-respect and social status. Women of lower classes would often wear the veil to give the impression of a higher standing. The fact that the veil was the sign of nobility was the reason why prostitutes were not permitted to cover their hair in the old Jewish society. However, prostitutes often wore a special headscarf in order to look respectable. Jewish women in Europe continued to wear veils until the nineteenth century when their lives became more intermingled with the surrounding secular culture. The external pressures of the European life in the nineteenth century forced many of them to go out bare-headed. Some Jewish women found it more convenient to replace their traditional veil with a wig as another form of hair covering. Today, most pious Jewish women do not cover their hair except in the synagogue. Some of them, such as the Hasidic sects, still use the wig. What about the Christian tradition? It is well known that Catholic Nuns have been covering their heads for hundreds of years, but that is not all. St. Paul in the New Testament made some very interesting statements about the veil: “Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonours his head. And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonours her head - it is just as though her head were shaved. If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or shaved off, she should cover her head. A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man. For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. For this reason, and because of the angels, the woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head” (I Corinthians 11:3-10). St. Paul’s rationale for veiling women is that the veil represents a sign of the authority of the man, who is the image and glory of God, over the woman who was created from and for man. St. Tertullian in his famous treatise ‘On The Veiling Of Virgins’ wrote, “Young women, you wear your veils out on the streets, so you should wear them in the church, you wear them when you are among strangers, then wear them among your brothers…” Among the Canon laws of the Catholic church today, there is a law that require women to cover their heads in church. Some Christian denominations, such as the Amish and the Mennonites for example, keep their women veiled to the present day. The reason for the veil, as offered by their Church leaders, is “The head covering is a symbol of woman’s subjection to the man and to God” : The same logic introduced by St. Paul in the New Testament. From all the above evidence, it is obvious that Islam didn’t invent the head cover, but Islam endorsed it. The Quran urges the believing men and women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty and then urges the believing women to extend their head covers to cover the neck and the bosom “Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty……And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what ordinarily appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms….” (24:30,31).
The Quran is quite clear that the veil is essential for modesty, but why is modesty important? The Quran is still clear: “O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies (when abroad) so that they should be known and not molested” (33:59). This is the whole point, modesty is prescribed to protect women from molestation or simply, modesty is protection. Thus, the only purpose of the veil in Islam is protection. The Islamic veil, unlike the veil of the Christian tradition, is not a sign of man’s authority over woman nor is it a sign of woman’s subjection to man. The Islamic veil, unlike the veil in the Jewish tradition, is not a sign of luxury and distinction of some noble married women. The Islamic veil is only a sign of modesty with the sole purpose of protecting women, all women. The Islamic philosophy is that it is always better safe than sorry. In fact, the Quran is so concerned with protecting women’s bodies and women’s reputation that a man who dares to falsely accuse a woman of unchastity will be severely punished, “And those who launch a charge against chaste women, and produce not four witnesses (to support their allegations)- Flog them with eighty stripes; and reject their evidence ever after: for such men are wicked transgressors”(24:4). Compare this strict Quranic attitude with the extremely lax punishment for rape in the Bible “If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the girl, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives” (Deut. 22:28-30). One must ask a simple question here, who is really punished? The man who only paid a fine for rape, or the girl who is forced to marry the man who raped her and live with him until he dies? Another question that also should be asked is this: which is more protective of women, the Quranic strict attitude or the Biblical lax attitude? Some people, especially in the West, would tend to ridicule the whole argument of modesty for protection. Their argument is that the best protection is the spread of education, civilised behaviour, and self restraint. We would say: Fine but not enough.
I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read the following statistics, written in a pamphlet issued by the Dean of Women’s office at Queen’s University:
Something is fundamentally wrong in this society. A radical change in the society’s life style and culture is absolutely necessary. A culture of modesty is badly needed, modesty in dress, in speech, and in manners of both men and women. Otherwise, the grim statistics will grow even worse day after day and, unfortunately, women alone will be paying the price. Therefore, a society like France which expels young women from schools because of their modest dress is, in the end, simply harming itself. It is one of the great ironies of our world today that the very same headscarf revered as a sign of ‘holiness’ when worn for the purpose of showing the authority of man by Catholic Nuns, is reviled as a sign of ‘oppression’ when worn for the purpose of protection by Muslim women. (Friday khutbah by Sherif Muhammad. Kingston, February, 1995) The orthodox Muslim woman does not perceive the veil as inhibiting or oppresive. On the contrary. The veil guarantees her the full respect of the surroundings, and thus must be considered a privilege rather than a burden. The dignity of the wife or the daughters, or the dignity of any Muslim woman, for that matter, must be respected and protected. The western entertain the erroneous notion that the veil represents a compulsion from the husband and the religion. But women wearing veils, on the other hand, normally radiate devotion towards their religion. They have chosen the veil as a clear demonstration of their Muslim identity. Forcing anyone to do something against their own will is against Islam. There is no demand of compulsion in the Koran. On the other hand, every human being should see it as a religious duty to act out of a clean heart. Of course there may be families where the woman is forced, for instance to stay at home. But that does not imply that doing so is Islam. Last but not least, across the Muslim world, from high-end fashion stores in Dubai to more economic ones in working-class Cairo, women shop for a range of Islamic garb from stark black abayas in feather-light chiffon or heavy cotton, to exquisitely embroidered gallabeyas - or long flowing gowns - and ornately beaded and sequined hijabs. The diversity ranges from the gallabeyas and abayas with scarves of the Arab world to the chador or manteau (coat) and russari (scarf) of the Persian world to the chuni or wispy fabric accompanying the shalwar kameez in the Indian subcontinent to an assortment of veils and burqas worn in Muslim Southeast Asia and Africa. They all fall under the rubric of the hijab, a term loosely, if not always accurately, employed to denote loose clothing topped by a headscarf. But within Islam, the issue of veiling is a subject for considerable debate. Some Islamic experts say the text is open to interpretations, which has accounted for the diversity of veiling traditions across the Islamic world. July 11 Black vs. White people in IslamI had a really interesting conversation with my dad a couple days ago and decided to blog about it...The topic of conversation was about racial equality in Islam...
Now it is well known how the Western world has had issues with black vs. white...with black people being looked down upon and considered by many to be inferior to people with white skin, a concept which I of course reject fiercly. However, there is something to be optimistic about, and that is that in Islam there is absolutely no occurence of any racial-related issues of inequality. It is amazing really, considering how prominent the whole black vs. white issue is in the Western world, but I dare anyone to find me a Muslim who believes in the concept of black inferiority, or who carries race-related streotypes about black people. It is impossible, simply impossible. Why is it impossible? For the simple reason that Islam has never discriminated, or favored, a certain race over another, quite contrarily, it has emphasized the equality of people with differing skin colors. Some of our most beloved religious figures were black, including Prophet Idris (pbuh) and Prophet Salih (pbuh), in addition to the beloved companions of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) Zaid ibn Thabit and his son, Usama ibn Zaid (may Allah be pleased with them both). How could one ever look down upon black people when our own Prophets, chosen by God Himself to be prophets, were themselves black ?! It is simply absurd to even concieve of that notion. My friends, the above-mentioned black people are people whom most Muslims would only dream of being "a speck of dust on their shoes" (as the Arabic saying goes), therefore, how could we possibly think of others who carry the same skin color as being inferior to whites ? The notion is ridiculous, purely ridiculous, and one can't possibly hope to convince a Muslim otherwise. This, my fellow Muslims, is something to be proud of...one must take pride in being able to state firmly that race has never been an issue in determining how good a man/woman is. And let it be noted that the Arabic language does not have a word for the term "race", except for the word "human race"..there is no separation between "races" as there is in Western culture because race is seen as totally insignificant..."al jins al bashari" الجنس البشري or 'the human race' is all what is to be found in Arabic for the word race...
The conversation left me proud, and eager to share my feelings with others...it also reinforced my love of Islam and its treatment of human beings, black, white, yellow, green, violet, orange, or whatever color they may be.
April 27 Islamic Satellite !
Mashallah, I was just reading this article talking about the launching of the first 'Islamic' satellite. The satellite is supposed to be done in two years and launched into space so as to make moon sightings more accurate; this in turn makes determining dates for Islamic holidays and festivals much easier and should reduce problems associated with moon sightings. The satellite is supposed to cost $8 million, and is being made by an Italian company (can't wait for the day when a Muslim company is able to make satellites instead of having to turn to others for such things).
*article read off of islamonline.com, from ABC Online
April 19 Today could be your last day
يا من يعدّ غداً لتوبته أعَلى يقين من بلوغ غد؟ المرء في زلل على أمل ومنية الإنسان بالرصد أيام عمرك كلها عدد ولعل يومك آخر العدد
It's so true...never put off anything till the next day..in this case, putting off prayer, and saying "yeah, tomorrow I'll get up for Fajr"..how do you know you'll even be alive tomorrow?! Just a quick reminder of the fragility of life, and how you can never know when your last day will come.....
Turning to Islam after the TsunamiMashallah..I was just reading this article about young women in Banda Aceh, Indonesia, who say that their belief in God and their faith Islam has been strengthened after the occurance of the disastrous tsunami in December 2004. "I was born a Muslim in my family, so of course, I believe in God," says Rully, an economics student. "After the tsunami disaster, I know my faith is getting stronger, because I see all disaster, it's a sign of the power of God. Human beings are controlled by God. We cannot do anything without God." source: csmonitor.com Mashallah...it's beautiful and crucial to be able to view such a devastating occurance in such a manner as these Indonesian women...al7umdulilah...
April 03 More on Al Andalus
Al Andalus...aah ya Andalus
March 28 Find out your Islamic Birthdate !!!I know my birthdate by the Gregorian calendar, but I always was curious about what my birthdate would be by the Islamic Lunar calendar..it turns out I was born on the 9th of Ramadan !! Cool, huh?! If you're curious about your Islamic birthdate, check out this link, enter in your day, month, and year, and press the 'convert' button to get your Islamic b-day ! |
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